Sunday, April 12, 2015

April 12, 2015

Another great week has come and gone!  The first of our week always begins with calls to the kids and the grandkids!  We really enjoy these calls so much! It truly makes a difference with the homesickness.  I guess it could go both ways but for us….it makes us feel soooo good!  We love our family so much!  It has been a very hot week this week.  We have been told that this time of year is when the sun is the closest to Sri Lanka.  These are the hottest times in the country!  Steve takes his hankie with him wherever he goes and it is soaked so early in the day!  We were able to get our visa’s this week as well!  That means we are good here until February.  We will have to leave the country then and go somewhere else but for now….we are here to stay!  That is a big relief.  We made many visits this week as usual!  We love doing that!  We really get to know the members and less actives so much better when we go into their homes.  We went with the missionaries to the Nimal family.  They are members but haven’t come for several years.  Their 3 daughters are attending another church.  They are fun to visit.  She is a great cook and she fed us this fried egg thing with dhal.  She is starting a business from home this week by selling things she cooks.  They want us to pray for them in their new venture!  We had the missionaries (all 4 of them) over for dinner for FHE.  Sister Ann taught us how to make real Sri Lanka food….minus the extra spice of course…..and it was so very good!  Fried rice, chicken, dhal, cauliflower salad, etc.  We had a really great evening with all of them.  Steve and I split up on Tuesday.  I went with Sister Ann and Sister Sherine to visit Rosemary on her birthday! She is also not healing after her diabetes problems.   It was quite a ways out.  But it is always fun to see new things.  And she is a wonderful lady with so much faith.  She has done so many things for the church here.  Steve went with a young man who is investigating the church for lunch today.  His wife is a member.  He is really great and Steve and he have hit it off really well.  I hope things keep progressing for him.  We have also found that we can only visit one family each evening because it takes so long to get there and to get back.  It will take at least 1 to 1 1/2 hours to get somewhere in the trishaws and the traffic.  The people live far away from us!  But we love visiting them!  We also began our home seminary classes for some of the youth who don't come to church.  That has really been a lot of fun!  Sherines kids, Shanu and Shami are really great!  They are super smart.  We gave them the new manuals and gave them assignments and were able to visit with them and enjoy them.  Sherine is a great mother and has a wonderful relationship with them.  It is fun to watch her with them!  We also visited a family who's mother works at a salon.  We surprised them by going there with the Elders!  The girls were really sweet.  The oldest has been reading her scriptures and doing all her seminary stuff even though they don't attend.  The younger girl is not old enough for seminary yet. She had drawn some patterns on her hand and arm.  It is called Mehendi.  People will pay a lot of money to have that done.  She had drawn her own.  She showed us what she used and how it is done.  So she did a design on my thumb!  It is still there but not very dark anymore.  I guess it wears off after a week or so.  We had a great visit with this family and were able to get seminary started for them!  We were also able to visit Elder Rajan best friends while we were out that way!  Elder Rajan is serving in Negombo.  That was really fun hearing stories about him when they were growing up together.  They said we could come back!  Hopefully we will meet his father on one of the visits and try to teach him!  We had another big Skype conference with Ana in Jakarta.  Hopefully we will get all the computer stuff down sometime soon!  Later, we visited Inoka and her husband and daughter in their home.  She is a returned missionary who was in a bad marriage at first and then married a Buddhist guy.  They seem to be happy.  She has a testimony still but hasn't been coming to church.  She wants her daughter to be baptized.  Her daughter, Stephanie, is really excited to learn.  She is 9 and so cute and shy!  It was really a wonderful visit with them.  The Elders were supposed to come but had helped a family that was moving.  Steve actually helped for awhile but came home for an appointment.  I started my piano lessons....well sorta!  I had a whole list of people coming....and they didn't come!  Everyone apologized and said since it was the holiday they had so many other things going on and forgot to call!  Oh well.  I got to read a bunch of the Conference talks!  We will see what next week brings!!  However, everyone is now gone for the New Year.  It is so interesting to learn about this Buddhist/Sri Lankan holiday.  We had a wonderful church meeting today!  I was surprised that so many were there when we heard so many leave for the week.  The talks in Sacrament meeting were great and the lessons were wonderful as well.  They still count on us to say things in their lessons...or they ask if we will add something or if something is right!  It makes me laugh.  We try to explain that they know so much too but they don't think so!  What a blessing it is to serve as missionaries!  We are so grateful for this wonderful experience!  
Brother Nemal and his family



A real Sri Lanka feast!


Want some water??!!


Coconut tree






Our first monkey...up on the roof



Monkey eating the mangos out of the trees!



Cows roaming in the middle of the street!


Mehendi


Deyan and Cassandra


Stephanie!

Inoka, Stephanie and Nevine






Sunday, April 5, 2015

April 5, 2015

Yes, you are right.  My posts are way too long!  There are just so many new and exciting experiences that we have every week!  Plus, this is my journal and I don't want to forget any of the great things that happen!  Our week this week was busy but not as many new and different things happened.  We began our week with a District mission activity.  Since our bowling activity last time didn't work, we decided to try again!  It was a lot of fun!  The building was extremely hot and I think it was the first time that it really affected me!   We played 2 games and really laughed a lot!  We went to Pizza Hut for lunch, followed by Baskin Robins Ice Cream!  YUM!  I know I keep saying it, but the Elders are wonderful young men.  We really enjoy them!  We had a wonderful district meeting with them on Tuesday morning.  We have been doing a lot of our seminary and institute things this week.  Trying to figure out the seminary reporting site and then getting everything into the computer.  We finally received the teacher and student manuals for each branch.  That will help these wonderful teachers out a lot!  We had some wonderful visits this week.  We were able to visit Brother Franklin and his family.  We showed them a Mormon Message about forgiveness.  We really love that family.  Brother Franklin, his wife, Katherine, their daughter, Nuwani and her husband and daughter.  Her husband is not a member.  A great guy!  He hasn't had a job for 8 years.  This is not uncommon in Sri Lanka.  There are not many jobs.  It is tough for these wonderful people.  That is why they live with several generations of family.  He had a really promising interview a month back but found out that he didn't get the job.  We feel so bad for him.  But our visit was great!  We keep praying for these wonderful families.  We were able to go to President Kolitha's home with his wonderful wife, Premali, and their daughter. Sister Premali is also the District RS President.  It took us over 2 1/2 hours to go 8 km to their home because of the holiday traffic.  Friday was Good Friday plus a full moon which is a big holiday (Poya Day...a buddhist holiday)  every month.  Everyone travels out of the city to their family members somewhere else.  We hit that traffic....of everyone leaving the city!  It was nuts!  But the evening turned out to be really great!  We had an amazing meal and wonderful company.  More faith filled stories of conversion to the gospel.  They are very educated people with good jobs.  And yet they are so humble and full of faith.  Another family we visited was Brother Jeffry, his wife, and 3 boys.  That was a wonderful visit as well.  These young boys too have great faith as there are no members at all in their schools or neighborhoods.  There are great pressures in school to be in the top 2% so you can go to the University for free.  You have huge exams at the end of each year which you need to pass and do well in.  Really sharp youth in the church here.  We visited with a young family, the Hagobians.  He is from Iraq and served his mission here in Sri Lanka.  He married a really fun, Sri Lankan girl, Radika, and they have 2 children.  She is not a member but welcomed us with so much spunkiness and love!  She fed us a wonderful meal, along with the Elders, and even invited our driver to come in and eat!  Another wonderful story of a young man in Iraq, who found the gospel in Yemen, lost his way, came back and served a mission, and has a strong testimony of the gospel.  Really fun visit.  We hurried home to prepare a meal for Umanda and Santhush and Umanda's father, Tissa.  He is a legend here in Sri Lanka as he was the first missionary here.  He is also Nancy Ferdinando's son, and we promised her we would contact him.  Nancy lives in St George and we met her before we came on our mission.  He converted many of the stalwart members in the District.  Unfortunately, he is struggling right now with his testimony.  But we had a great visit and enjoyed their company as well as the Elders.  We had a wonderful fast and testimony meeting this morning in church.  Once again, the members kept coming up and not leaving any spaces between each other.  What a wonderful spirit we felt today.  We love the members so much already.  I am starting piano lessons this week.  Should be fun.  The church has a course that teaches you to play the hymns as you learn.  Lots of visits and seminary stuff this week!  Always a lot going on and we love it!
Pizza Hut with the Elders



Cosmic bowling






Strike!

Pres Kolitha and Sister Primali and Sonali


Amazing meal!


Holiday at the beach for many Sri Lankan families.

Unbelievable!  No one is on the road!

Brother Hagobian and his adorable wife, Radika



Emma and Joshua



Brother Tissa with Santhush and the Elders





Sunday, March 29, 2015

March 29, 2015

I can't believe that another week has gone by.  We had the privilege of having Juswan Tandiman come to Sri Lanka from Jakarta, Indonesia.  He is the area director of Seminary and Institute in Asia.  He is over 14 countries.  And what a wonderful man he is.  It was truly a blessing to spend the week with him.  Very kind, loving and has such great faith and testimony.  We actually began the week with having the missionaries over for breakfast!  They were all sweaty from playing soccer together on their pday!  We had called a taxi earlier and left for our trip to the airport...about an hour away.  The plane from Singapore was a little delayed so we had a bite to eat at the airport and waited until he came.  We drove back to Colombo, visiting and getting to know him a bit better.  We found his hotel and had him check in.  The taxi driver told us that the restaurant across the street from the hotel was really good...right on the beach.  It was called Beach Wadya.  They brought out the raw fish on a tray and asked you what you would like.  You chose out of crab, prawns, lobster, fish, calamari, etc...and they went and cooked it right there!  It was very good.  We dropped him back to the hotel to let him rest after his long journey and we went home to cook an "American" meal for him and the District President and his wife, Pres. Anton and Sister Ann.  We had a pork roast, mashed potatoes, gravy, corn, fruit, and veges.  I had actually made mom's home made rolls and they turned out really great!  After dinner, Brother Tandiman began to orient us on the Seminary and Institute program and the things we will do.  We really learned a lot and had a really fun evening!  Bro. Tandiman wanted to visit all the branches in the district while he was here and meet some seminary students in each branch.  So on Tuesday morning, Pres Anton hired a van and the 5 of us headed to Kandy.  It is a town about 4 hours away and more inland.  We had heard a lot about this beautiful town and we were excited to see it for the first time.  So we had our first cross country experience.  Here are some of the things that we noticed on the journey:
-there are no driving laws.......None.
-if you get to a spot on the road first, it is yours....but others will be there to take it from you at any moment
-the roads are very narrow...2 lanes....but the drivers make it 4 lanes somehow
-there are a million motorcycles
-the drivers constantly honk at each other
-the adults wear helmets on the motorcycles but the children do not
-cows roam
-dogs roam but they have no homes
-people are also on these roads where the traffic is so crazy...yet none seem to care and they all make it to where they are going somehow
-there are shops all along the road...and they seem to sell certain things in certain areas, ex..cashews in one area, pineapple in another, clay pots, bricks, blow up toys, etc
-there are rice fields everywhere
-there are more mountains and it is beautiful
But we arrived safely...which is hard to believe!  I just learned not to watch out the front window very often!!  It was cooler in Kandy.  It sits in a valley surrounded by mountains.  It is really a nice town.
We met at the church where we met Sister Nemishi, the seminary teacher.  She was teaching her class so we were able to sit in and listen to it.  She is a sweet, young, returned missionary....getting ready to have her first child.  We visited with the students and with her and the Branch President there.  We met many of the members that had come to see President Anton and to meet us.  Not many of them speak English but the people were wonderful.  That is a problem here.  There are no materials for seminary or institute in the Sinhala language and they have to read in English and try to translate at the same time.  Takes longer and sometimes the meanings don't come across the way it is written.  But these teachers try so hard and do a wonderful job.  We had a tour of the church.  It was an old mansion that they remodeled to be the church.  There is quite a bit of land and they are very proud of it.  And they should be.  About 8 years ago, there began to be a lot of persecution for the church members there.  After a little time, they were having their sacrament meeting and the police came in and told all the foreign missionaries they had to get out of the country right away.  The leaders in Kandy were Buddhist and did not want the Church in their town. The leaders talked to them and came to an agreement to let them have a week to leave.  Things are better now but they still worry about letting us Americans go there without some of the Sri Lanka locals.  Pres Anton and the Branch Pres, Pres Malagorta, had to visit a family where the wife needed a blessing....and the daughter was an institute student that is waiting for a mission call.  The Sansone family.  It was a very humbling experience to go there.  They live in such a small area with many family members.  The daughter was injured in a family altercation with relatives and the mother watched it and went into shock.  There is hard feelings and they are having a tough time.  The family was so delightful.  We enjoyed them so much.  The daughters were as cute as can be.  The father was very kind and had a wonderful sense of humor.  The mother was distant and quiet.  Pres Anton anointed her and Steve gave her a wonderful blessing.  It was such a great experience.  After, the son in law climbed the tree outside the home and threw down some huge avocados that they gave to us.  The home was in a beautiful area with big beautiful trees.  We had a very special time with their family.  We stopped and met Pres Malagorta's wife and enjoyed their family photos!  They live on the river in a nice home.  As we drove back into town, we noticed very large crows....or so I thought.  No, they are bats!  Very large bats!  And they were hanging upside down in the very large trees.....just like the scary movies as a child!!!  They also had big beautiful white birds covering the trees along the river.  We found a restaurant to eat at and then checked into our hotel.  Great day!  We woke up on Wednesday and looked outside our balcony to see the river going right by.  It was so nice and cool....well...cooler than Colombo!  We enjoyed breakfast outside overlooking the river as well.  As we were eating, we noticed that there were about 4 men in the middle of the river.  They were getting mud from the bottom of the river, piling it high in a plate looking thing, and then hoisting it on their heads to take it out and dump it into a truck.  They would pass it off from one guy to the next and then start all over again.  We are not sure what they were going to use it for but it sure took a lot of time and manual labor.  They filled the truck one bucket at a time.  We then began our long journey home...or so we thought!  Brother Tandiman said he would sure like to ride an elephant.....and Pres Anton figured we had time.....so....we rode an elephant!  It was hilarious because I was not prepared and was in a skirt!!  But it was fun and now we can say we did it.  They also let you get in the water with the elephant and give them a bath....and get drenched....but we were not dressed for that either!  We took a tour of their factory next door....a paper factory....where the paper was made from.....elephant dung!  So very interesting....but fascinating!  They made beautiful creations...notebooks, stationary, boxes...and an elephant statue made from paper which we bought!  It turned out to be lots of fun!  We stopped a few places along the way....to get cashews, and have a drink from a king coconut, and to buy the best pineapples ever!  We made it back to Colombo in time to meet with some seminary students in the Colombo branch.  We visited a brother and sister who are doing seminary home study.  They were wonderful young people with fun personalities and excellent English skills!  We met later with the Colombo branch press, Pres Kolitha  and seminary teacher, Bro Jeffry.  Bro. Jeffry is really a great teacher.  Bro Tandiman has really helped us in these meetings and showed us how things are to be done.  And he does it in such a loving and kind way.  We had a great dinner at the Chinese Dragon!  Yummy!  We had the morning to catch up on things and then met Bro Tandiman for lunch.  After we met with the Negombo branch president and his newly called sister returned missionary seminary teacher.  They were working in Colombo so they just came to the church.  The branch pres is young and the seminary teacher is younger.  They were eager to learn and share.  It was a great meeting.  We hired a taxi to drive us to Negombo so that we could meet with some of their students.  We picked up the Elders quorum president and met with 3 students.  What a great time we had.  We loved meeting in their homes and visiting with their families and seeing what kind of great kids they are!  We went to the church there and met a sister missionary who just returned from the Philippines and was getting released.  We met her sister and found out that she had served with Sister Abbey Hafen!  We also found out that the Elders quorum pres that went with us was companions with Bro Tandiman's nephew.  Unbelievable!  We had a nice dinner at a German restaurant in Negombo before dropping Bro Tandiman off at a hotel there so he could catch an airplane early in the morning.  We got home to Colombo pretty late.  Friday was spent catching up, doing laundry and getting ready for Saturday because I was teaching a class at the relief society activity.   In the evening, I went with 2 sisters visiting a gal and her mother from the branch.  It was really a great visit and I enjoyed it so much.  Saturday was the RS activity.  I was giving a demonstration on how to make banana muffins...the recipe I got from Dawna Drake.  There were about 20 women that showed up.  There were great lessons taught about the history of RS and a nice lunch was provided.  Steve came to the church and just visited with people that came in and out.  We had Eashani and Nihal and their family over for dinner.  They liked our "American" dinner  of chicken and mashed potatoes and chocolate chip cookies.  We really enjoyed them so much.  They told us they were going to the United States for 25 days.  She had been wishing and planning for this trip for the last 20 years.  And it was finally happening.  They are going to go through the temple to be sealed and she is so excited!  It was so special to share that with them!  They are flying into Las Vegas where a previous missionary couple in Sri Lanka lives, then to Salt Lake to go to Conference and go through the temple.  Then to Florida where another previous missionary couple lives.  We are so excited for them.  She is such a tender, humble woman who has been serving as the District RS President.  Today was another wonderful Sunday.  We had a 5th Sunday meeting with RS and Priesthood combined where Pres Kolitha talked about preparing for Conference and making sure we come and listen to it.  We will do that a week after the time it is shown in Salt Lake.  We went to Michael's home for dinner.  He is a returned missionary who went less active for awhile.  He decided in the last few weeks to come back and wanted us to come to his home and meet his parents.  They put on a huge feast of fish and chicken and rice and potatoes, etc!  I am known in the mission as being someone who doesn't like spice so they say they are going to cook without spice.  I can't imagine what it would be like if they did use spice because it is still pretty hot to me!  But it is so yummy!  It was very nice.  The Elders came with us for dinner too!  Michael served in New Zealand on his mission and was in some of the same places that Steve was in.  We saw pictures and they enjoyed exchanging mission stories.  As we were looking at pictures, he showed us a picture of his companion, Elder Smith.  Oh my goodness...Elder Tanner Smith from home!  Bret Smith's son!  They were companions!  Such a small world!  This coming week, we are going to put everything together that we learned this past week.  We are having a great time on our mission and love these wonderful, humble people!












Lunch at the beach with Brother Tandiman!


Fresh fish!


Lunch on the beach!

This guy has a sling shot and is keeping the crows away!

Inside of the restaurant!



The outside of the restaurant..who would think it is there!
Buddhist influence!




Road to Kandy!













Jasintha, Sister Nimeshi, Ann in Kandy

Pres Anton joined us!


Sister Nimeshi's sister joined us with her daughter.

The beautiful church in Kandy

The Primary room

Another part of the Primary room

Back of the church

A cool looking tree

A nutmeg tree!

What the nutmeg fruit looks like!
More of the church







Looking out the side of the church


The church owns this apartment outside of the back of the church.  There was a senior couple here several years ago and has not had any one there since.



The front of the church in Kandy

The baptismal font in the garage.

The YW room.



So funny?!

Brother Tandiman, Sister Nimeshi, Pres Malagorta , Us    

Looking up from the church.



Entrance to the church.

Beautiful river in Kandy


Making bricks


Avocado tree

Sansony family



Getting the ripe avocados!



The avocados are huge!





The path to the home
It was getting dark, but all those spots are big white birds on every tree along the river.


President Malagorta's home on the river.

Sri Lankan buffet!







Our morning view from the hotel balcony



Breakfast outside


Someone was getting married!


The ride back home






Washing the elephants!







Brother Tandiman was so excited!





Our turn!

Riding an elephant in a dress!







From the top!





This was our elephant!






Elephant museum





Did you hear about the three legged dog that walked into a bar...........

Paper factory!

Coconut juice

Condies, Shanu, Shami, Sherine


Bro Tandiman, Pres Rochan, Sister Nishadi, Elder Condie





Beautiful Nishara in her home


Rishell and Melani in Negombo

Sister Vellayan who served with Abbey Hafen in the Philippines!

Sister Vellayan, Sister Nishadi, and newly returned missionary Sister Vellayan


Dinner in Kandy with Kumar...our taxi driver!
Dinner with Eashani and Nihal and family
Dinner with Michael and his family and the Elders


Michaels parents



Michaels family




The Condies and Michael